They can make someone’s day or break their spirit. The Bible has a lot to say about how we use our words and why it matters. Understanding this can help us choose our words wisely and use them to make a positive difference.
In the Bible, God used words to create everything we see. In Genesis 1:3, it says, “And God said, ‘Let there be light,’ and there was light.” This shows us that words can bring about big changes. Just like God’s words made the world, our words have the power to build up or tear down. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us, “The tongue has the power of life and death.” This means that what we say can really affect others, so it’s important to be careful and kind with our words.
The Bible teaches us that our words should be encouraging and helpful. Ephesians 4:29 says, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up.” When we use kind words, we can make people feel good about themselves and brighten their day. Encouraging others helps them feel supported and loved, and it’s a way to show God’s love through our actions.
Our words also have the power to heal. Proverbs 12:18 says, “The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” This means that words can either hurt deeply or help someone feel better. Jesus used His words to heal and help people, and we can do the same by speaking with compassion and kindness.
Sometimes, we need to correct or guide someone, and our words can help with that, too. Proverbs 27:6 says, “Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.” This means that honest feedback from a friend is valuable and can lead to growth. If we need to correct someone or give advice, we should do it with love and a desire to help, not to criticize or put them down.
The Bible talks about how our words should reflect the qualities of the Holy Spirit. In Galatians 5:22-23, it lists qualities like love, joy, peace, and kindness. When our words show these qualities, we’re living out the Spirit’s influence in our lives. This means speaking in ways that are loving, kind, and respectful.
Ultimately, we’re called to reflect Christ in everything we do, including how we speak. Colossians 3:16 says, “Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly.” This means letting Christ’s love and teachings guide our conversations. When we speak in a way that reflects Christ’s love and truth, we make a positive impact and show others what it means to follow Him.
The Bible teaches us that our words are powerful tools. They can create, encourage, heal, correct, and reflect God’s love. By being mindful of how we use our words, we can make a big difference in the lives of those around us and live in a way that honors God.
Tyler Jones is Student Ministry Pastor at Koinonia Church in Hanford, CA. He can be reached at tyler@kchanford.com or 559-582-1528.